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Foreplay Sex Tips.... Have some fun !!!
Make Foreplay a Breeze Believe
it or not, even air can be used as an erotic tool--a particularly enticing one during hot summer nights. Have your lover strip
down to their birthday suit and lie flat on the bed with their eyes closed. (You might even want to blindfold them.) Then,
use your breath or a small, handheld fan to blow on them gently, moving from erogenous zone to erogenous zone. Soon enough,
they're likely to be begging for your touch. |
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Savor Sweet Sensations Consider
the erotic possibilities of produce. Fruit is delicious and sensual, whether you and your partner share an erotic snack, place
a morsel in your mouths to sweeten a kiss, or lightly rub juicy pieces over one another’s bodies to lick off. Try feeding
your lover a succulent strawberry or a ripe piece of mango at the end of a romantic dinner and see where it leads! |
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Undressed and Impressed Try
a new twist on an old favorite: Perform a unique striptease dance for your lover. First, impose a strict look-but-don’t-touch
rule. (Using fur-lined cuffs or tie bonds on your partner will help.) Then, as you disrobe, erotically remove articles of
clothing from them, as well. Do this until you are both naked and ready for more action. You may or may not want to remove
their restraints! |
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Mix Up Your Massages Massage
is a wonderful, intimate way to be romantic with your partner, but even massages can become routine. So mix it up! One time
touch your partner using only soft, feather-light strokes over every inch of their body. Another time, use different, oiled
parts of your body -- like your forearms, chest, and thighs -- to caress and rub your partner. You can even make massage a
game, choosing the strokes and body parts, and different massage oils… we
have a wide variety from Cucumber Melon to Ginger Pear. |
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Get in the Zone First, ask
your partner to pick a favorite non-genital erogenous zone on their body (nape of neck, back of knee, earlobes, hands, tummy,
etc.). Then, for the next 24 hours, lavish special attention on that one spot or zone. Try caressing it, kissing it, blowing
on it, rubbing ice on it -- get creative! The goal is to see just how heated up you can make each other throughout the day.
This will lead to some really intense sex by evening. |
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Sexy Scavenger Hunt On your
next big date night with your partner, tantalize them with a playful adult scavenger hunt! Hide your sex toys and other racy
treats around the house and give your lover clues on where to find them. To add some fun to the game, you might want to shed
a piece of clothing each time they find something you’ve hidden. But let them know they can’t get their real prize
until they’ve found the very last one. As for what that prize is, we'll leave that to your imagination! |
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Daring Strip Poker If you’re
in a frisky mood, try playing a game of strip poker (or rummy or gin) with your partner. When you’ve both lost all of
your clothes, dare each other to do silly tricks in the buff. For instance, you could dare your naked partner to do a headstand,
cartwheel or jumping jacks, or attempt to give you an erotic belly or hula dance. You’re both sure to have a good laugh.
Laughing with each other while naked can help boost your body confidence and is a great erotic mood enhancer. Try getting
naked together with one of these fabulous games: Kinky Bingo or Strip & Tease.
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X Marks the Spot The next time
you and your lover are together, each take a piece of paper and draw a picture or outline of your body on it (even if it’s
a stick figure!). Then, mark an X on every spot you want your lover to touch, lick or kiss. When you’re both done, trade
papers. Now you have an erotic treasure map that you can use to explore your partner’s body. |
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Heighten Your Senses Expanding
the range of sensations that you’re open to can really heighten what you experience during sex. One way you and your
partner can experiment with this idea is by taking turns blindfolding one another and having each other taste a number of
different foods. Choose a range of foods that are very different. Some should be salty, some should be sweet and some should
even be bitter. Tasting one food after another without knowing what to expect will make each flavor more intense. If you and
your partner like this experience, you can also try it using different scents (like peppermint, lemon and floral scents) or
sounds (from beating drums to the sound of your breath in their ear). |
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Be Daring and Delicious Surprise
your lover by placing a drop of flavored oil gel or nipple balm somewhere on your body that you know your lover will lick
during foreplay. Once the action starts, watch your lover’s face as they taste this unexpected treat. Chances are, they’ll
soon be searching your body for more! |
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Erotic Produce Fruit is delicious
and sensual, whether sharing an erotic snack, rubbing it lightly over your lover's body or licking the juice off of select
body parts. Try freezing some grapes and using them like an ice cube (just be sure not to choke on them!). |
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Chill 'em Out Run an ice cube
over your lover's body while it melts before sex! They'll get the chills, and then you can warm them up. |
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